Discovering you’re pregnant in high school can be a lot to process. You might be feeling super excited, scared, confused, or unsure about what comes next. Trying to balance studies with your pregnancy might feel like a big challenge right now, but remember, you’re not alone.
At Care Net Milwaukee, we’re here to help. Whether you’re still figuring things out or you’ve made a decision about your pregnancy, we’re here to lend an ear, offer support, and share practical tips to help you smooth out this time in your life. With the right approach and a strong support network, you can handle school while making smart decisions for your future.
Your Rights
Under a federal law called Title IX, pregnant students can pursue their education without prejudice. This means your school must make reasonable accommodations for your pregnancy needs, like doctor’s appointments and recovery time. Part of Title IX also means that you are free to continue with sports, clubs or extracurricular activities just as you would if you weren’t pregnant.
Luckily, Title IX also continues after the baby is born. So even into parenthood, you are still free to attend classes, maintain your academic standing, and take advantage of extracurriculars.
Telling your teachers and school administrators about your pregnancy
It might feel awkward, but telling your teachers and school counselors that you’re pregnant will benefit you in the long run. Most educators and school staff want you to do well and will likely offer their support. Talk to them honestly about your situation and any adjustments you might need to make. You can also bring along a supportive adult, such as a parent or counselor, to your meeting for extra moral support. Your teachers are on your side and rooting for your success, so never feel like you can’t advocate for what you need.
Telling Your Peers
Sharing your pregnancy with friends and schoolmates might feel nerve-wracking. It’s normal to feel different emotions—like fear of judgment or uncertainty about their reactions. Yet, opening up about your pregnancy can make you feel closer to those who care about you. Here are a few suggestions to help you approach these conversations with confidence:
- Start with your closest friends
- Choose a comfortable and private setting
- Be prepared for a range of reactions
- Be honest and open
Learn About Your Educational Options
While being a pregnant student comes with unique challenges, loads of resources exist to help you succeed. You can embrace online education options for added flexibility, lean on school counselors and advisors for guidance, or join school or community support groups for peer advice and support. Work with your teachers and counselors to come up with a plan that works for you and your baby.
Balancing school and pregnancy might seem tough, but you don’t have to face it alone. At Care Net Milwaukee, we are ready to offer guidance and compassionate support. Reach out to us for support, information, and access to resources. Your future is bright, and you have the strength to balance school and pregnancy successfully. Let Care Net Milwaukee be a part of your support network as you step bravely into this next chapter of your life!
